No Reinvention Required
Start the year breathing like someone who has your back
This week has a weird energy.
Even if you ignore the hype, it’s hard not to feel it: the reflective listicles, the summaries, the implied suggestion that you should be standing on the edge of something shiny and improved.
As if January 1st is a test… and you’re supposed to show up prepared for it.
But – hello, irony! Most of us don’t arrive into a new year all daisy-fresh like we were gently carried there by a spring breeze.
We arrive with baggage. Fatigue. Lessons. Loose ends. A body that’s been doing its best.
This is what it’s like being human at the end of a (long) year.
So instead of asking who you’re going to be next, here’s a radical notion: ask yourself instead if you can be kind and patient with yourself as everything unfolds.
It’s easy to type that, but not necessarily to execute on.
Your breath can help. Do this for as long as you like, keeping the breath smooth and balanced.
Inhale gently through your nose.
Pause for a quick breath hold, just long enough to remind yourself that you are present, here, right now, in your body.
Exhale for the same length of time as you inhaled.
This isn’t about a fresh start. It’s about a supported continuation.
Because real beginnings don’t happen all at once.
They happen breath by breath.
On ordinary days.
When no one’s watching.
So, no, you don’t need to create a new version of yourself this week, or even this month. Be the same you… just moving forward with a bit more kindness in the body.
Start the year breathing like someone who has your back. Everything else can wait.
Last Gasp
“Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, whispering, ‘It will be happier.’” – Alfred Lord Tennyson
P.S. Want support that matches this energy? The Silent Reboot Toolkit is a free collection of simple breath resets you can use on ordinary days, when no one’s watching… or even if they are. Download it here.




I have to admit, I go weeks without reading your Substack. So I’ve decided to read one a day, since breathing is one of the pillars of health, they say. Do you have a breathing technique for anger? There’s a lot of that going around.